Welcome to the Blog – My Story
Lately, I’ve been getting a lot of emails from persons that really need my help and I can really feel for you.
Now, I’m not a relationship expert or one of those dating gurus but here’s why I am able to offer you great advice on how to get your ex back.
I, like nearly everyone else I know, have had relationships go bad. I’ve had my heart broken and yeah, I’ve broken a few hearts as well.
The last time it happened, my girlfriend and I had been having a rough relationship and I’m telling you, this girl meant a lot to me. She began to get very distant and I suspected that she was cheating.
Of course, I, didn’t want to believe that and I did everything wrong in the hopes of getting her to come back to me. I never understood why it had the opposite effect. She stopped calling entirely, took off her phone and did so much more to avoid me. This only made things worse.
I found out from her sister that she was in fact cheating.
And still…I wanted her back!
So I did the same exact thing you did; I turned to the internet to see if I could find some answers. At first it seemed like everyone was telling you to do different things…use this and that technique or this trick would do it.
One thing was clear the first night I did my research…I found out what I had been doing wrong all the time. Damn, it hit so hard…I wished I could go back and change and do the right thing. I still didn’t know what to do to get her back though.
That was about to change as I found some guys who really knew their stuff. Their advice was really golden and I tried to study everything I could from them.
What they mainly taught apart from how to get your ex back was they psychology of relationships and how women and men operate. It was interesting to know how these things affected my relationship and why my girlfriend moved further away even when I logically thought the things I was doing would make her come back.
I studied these guys stuff for a couple of weeks which accidentally opened up a secret door to getting my girlfriend back.
What was this secret?
You’ve probably heard about the ‘no contact’ method.
Yes, while I was studying the stuff by George Karanastasis, TW Jackson and David D’Angelo, I hadn’t tried to contact my girlfriend in about 4 weeks hoping I would have everything I needed when I tried again. The reason for this was that I really didn’t want to fail at getting her back.
In fact, most of what I did to get her back happened accidentally but I took note since I was trying to understand how the whole thing worked.
So how’d it happen anyway?
While walking with a female coworker, I eventually met her going in the opposite direction and said hi and continued walking. She said hi back with a smile but I paid her no attention. I wasn’t surprised to hear the phone ring that night with my girlfriend on the other end.
Anyway, long story short…we talked, she wanted me back, I gave her a hard time. Our little talk gave me the chance to test the stuff I had learned and it was amazingly working much to my disbelief although I was enjoying it.
In the weeks following, she was always trying to call until she eventually ended up coming over to my house. We got back together but only for a short time.
The stuff I had studied had worked so I researched it more and more until I realized how much people I could help with this information. People around me needed to know this stuff but I had no idea how to help them without seeming to be meddling in their business.
In just the same way I learned how to get my ex back, I decided to offer my help to people like yourself. I wished that I could have written a book but the fact remains, the stuff TW Jackson and others write, works so I would rather refer you to them while offering you tips through my blog.
I hope you enjoyed reading my story. If you haven’t already, go to the main site and sign up for the newsletter series. There’s so much to learn and you can get your ex back just like I did.
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