Sometimes it’s just not your fault if your relationship falls apart.
People, both men and women, do have issues that not even you can fix (and you shouldn’t be the one to try to fix them either).
Here’s a video about a serious topic that may make you guys think for a moment. Ladies, your opinion is also welcomed in the comment section.
Many people freak out when Valentines Day comes around and they don’t have a special someone to spend the holiday with. Being alone on February 14th isn’t so bad when you consider that there are hundreds of thousands of people just like you, that will spend their day by themselves.
Too much importance shouldn’t be placed on Valentine’s Day because its just another day.
Here’s a video that you may give you a few ideas and some encouragement.
These are only a few things you can do on Valentine’s Day to keep away the blues. Be creative and remember that you aren’t alone & its just another day.
Having an understanding of how relationships work can greatly improve how you get along with your significant other.
Your girlfriend or boyfriend left, but you’re more confused about why they left and need answers. Moreso, you are at a loss as to how to fix this situation.
First you need to understand the number one reason why they left. It’s not because you cheated, or they cheated or “the long distance thing isn’t working out.”
The number one reason why your sweetheart left is because they lost the attraction for you.
What is Attraction and How do you lose it
Believe it or not, attraction has little to do with looks. It has more to do with how you make someone else feel about you. This is why sometimes you can see a couple and ask, “What does she see in him?” Simple…she’s attracted to him because of how he makes her feel.
You cannot choose to feel attracted to someone but can lose the initial attractive qualities by doing unattractive things or not doing the things that attracted the person to you in the first place.
Some attractive qualities are:
- being funny
- confidence
- being attractive to other women/men
- standing up for what you believe in
- assertiveness
When someone loses their attraction for you it is because you’ve probably displayed weak and unattractive behaviour and this often leads to your partner being unhappy with the relationship and even cheating.
Some unattractive qualities are:
- neediness
- unassertive
- no sense of humor
- bad social skills
- lack of confidence
What Does This Have To Do With Dealing With My Breakup?
Most people when faced with a breakup will display unattractive qualities such as neediness. They will beg, cry in the presence of their partner or call 10 times a day. These actions suggest neediness which is one of the biggest unattractive qualities that contribute to loss of attraction and consequently a breakup.
In the early stages of a breakup, once you recognize this then it is pretty much a matter of reversing these qualities and doing more of what you did at first to attract that person to you. Once passed that stage it requires a lot more.
As you probably guessed, when you wait longer and longer to repair your relationship, it is going to become harder. But it is still possible to get your ex back if you use the techniques in the Magic of Making Up which are to be used for this reason.
On another note, if you work on the attraction thing, you’ll most often find that you don’t want your ex back anymore.
Do you think that its IMPOSSIBLE to get your ex back?
Even if you’re the one who messed up, it isn’t. Anyone can get their ex-man or ex-woman back. You’ll have to know exactly what to do though or you could lose them altogether.
If you’re still in doubt watch the news story below.
This is an amazingly true story of Burt and Linda Pugach who were married for 33 years. Burt is rather crazy (I would say) because he is a very jealous man and he hires someone to throw acid in Linda’s face which leaves her blinded for life.
As the story goes Burt went to prison but surprisingly…Linda took him back after 16 years!
Is Linda Crazy in Love? Or just crazy?
Its not advised that any woman should take back a man like Burt…the point is, even as bad as he was he still got his ex back.
So what I’m trying to point out here is that YOUR situation isn’t impossible. You can still get your ex back. The techniques at MagicofMakingUp.com work. In fact, T. Dub Jackson has helped over 50,000 people in 77 countries to get their exes back.
Get Your Ex Back With the Magic of Making Up
Your ex apparently doesn’t want to talk to you when they don’t return your phone calls. But is it really their fault?
Ok, lets not play the blaming game here but you may be asking, “how do I get my ex to return my phone calls?” Or maybe even text & instant messages.
First you need to know what not to do…which is where most people go wrong.
There are two basic mistakes most people make when they’re trying to get their ex to return their calls.
- Pleading – “Hi John, its Tina. Please, please call me back. This is the third time I’m calling.I need to talk to you, ok.”
- The Emergency – “Hi Michelle, this is an emergency. I need to talk to you as soon as possible. Call me when you get this.”
I’m sure you can see why those don’t work. Beside’s looking needy by begging you also look desperate. And you had better have an emergency thats life threatening if your ex does call you back with the second one.
Now before I give you the magic words that would get your ex to call you back, I must warn you that this could backfire and put you in a much deeper mess if you don’t have a complete strategy.
You can find a complete plan of action outlined in The Magic of Making Up.
So the way this works is you’re going to use two of the most powerful forces in the human mind that would make people take action…
Curiosity & Self Interest
When you use this winning combination it works like magic. And it works nearly everytime.
Here’s what you do.
In a friendly tone you say:
“Hi John, its Tina. I want to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Can you see it? Curiosity and self interest right there.
John’s gonna be like,”What did I do?” – That’s curiosity.
They’ll feel good because it was a positive message – self interest.
Your ex won’t be able to resist calling you back. Its almost like casting a spell.
But before you call you have to do the ‘set up’ which is having that small thing that you appreciate. It can be any small thing but it has to be worth it but most importantly you must have a complete strategy like I said before.
The Magic of Making Up has a great strategy that you can use with this technique. What you do before, during and after calling your ex is more important than getting your ex to return your calls.
Most people just don’t know what to do when a break up is about to happen. Some just don’t think about what they should do.
And the first thing most do is usually the opposite of what they should be doing.
Here’s a video I found that will put you on the right path to stopping a break up before it starts.
I hope that puts things into perspective for you.
Here’s the link to check out TW Jackson’s book.
The Magic of Making Up – Stop Your Break up Before It Starts.
Lately, I’ve been getting a lot of emails from persons that really need my help and I can really feel for you.
Now, I’m not a relationship expert or one of those dating gurus but here’s why I am able to offer you great advice on how to get your ex back.
I, like nearly everyone else I know, have had relationships go bad. I’ve had my heart broken and yeah, I’ve broken a few hearts as well.
The last time it happened, my girlfriend and I had been having a rough relationship and I’m telling you, this girl meant a lot to me. She began to get very distant and I suspected that she was cheating.
Of course, I, didn’t want to believe that and I did everything wrong in the hopes of getting her to come back to me. I never understood why it had the opposite effect. She stopped calling entirely, took off her phone and did so much more to avoid me. This only made things worse.
I found out from her sister that she was in fact cheating.
And still…I wanted her back!
So I did the same exact thing you did; I turned to the internet to see if I could find some answers. At first it seemed like everyone was telling you to do different things…use this and that technique or this trick would do it.
One thing was clear the first night I did my research…I found out what I had been doing wrong all the time. Damn, it hit so hard…I wished I could go back and change and do the right thing. I still didn’t know what to do to get her back though.
That was about to change as I found some guys who really knew their stuff. Their advice was really golden and I tried to study everything I could from them.
What they mainly taught apart from how to get your ex back was they psychology of relationships and how women and men operate. It was interesting to know how these things affected my relationship and why my girlfriend moved further away even when I logically thought the things I was doing would make her come back.
I studied these guys stuff for a couple of weeks which accidentally opened up a secret door to getting my girlfriend back.
What was this secret?
You’ve probably heard about the ‘no contact’ method.
Yes, while I was studying the stuff by George Karanastasis, TW Jackson and David D’Angelo, I hadn’t tried to contact my girlfriend in about 4 weeks hoping I would have everything I needed when I tried again. The reason for this was that I really didn’t want to fail at getting her back.
In fact, most of what I did to get her back happened accidentally but I took note since I was trying to understand how the whole thing worked.
So how’d it happen anyway?
While walking with a female coworker, I eventually met her going in the opposite direction and said hi and continued walking. She said hi back with a smile but I paid her no attention. I wasn’t surprised to hear the phone ring that night with my girlfriend on the other end.
Anyway, long story short…we talked, she wanted me back, I gave her a hard time. Our little talk gave me the chance to test the stuff I had learned and it was amazingly working much to my disbelief although I was enjoying it.
In the weeks following, she was always trying to call until she eventually ended up coming over to my house. We got back together but only for a short time.
The stuff I had studied had worked so I researched it more and more until I realized how much people I could help with this information. People around me needed to know this stuff but I had no idea how to help them without seeming to be meddling in their business.
In just the same way I learned how to get my ex back, I decided to offer my help to people like yourself. I wished that I could have written a book but the fact remains, the stuff TW Jackson and others write, works so I would rather refer you to them while offering you tips through my blog.
I hope you enjoyed reading my story. If you haven’t already, go to the main site and sign up for the newsletter series. There’s so much to learn and you can get your ex back just like I did.
